In the first half of our conversation with Rob Kowalski, he shares how God transformed him from a stripper and promoter to an expert on and advocate for abstinence, and why he founded CityFam to give singles a place to find real relationships.

Raised by a mother who was 15 when she gave birth to him, Rob had a childhood of poverty and want. With no strong male role model in the picture, he taught himself how to “be a man” and eventually became the most sought after male stripper in his hometown of Baltimore. At 25, he became a nightclub promoter and took over the nightlife in Charm City. His life looked like something out of a movie: sex, drugs, and alcohol. He was, literally, the life of the party. But he was empty. Lost. With severe addictions. 

Then he had a radical encounter with Jesus that transformed his life and turned his mess into his message. Now Rob is considered an authority on sex, waiting for the right person, and overcoming loneliness in life. Learn more with Rob’s book (Why Waiting Works: How Fast Sex Prevents us from Finding True Love and Long Term Happiness), at RobKowalski.com, through the Waiting Works Facebook Community, on YouTube, and with The Kowalski Analysis Podcast.